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If you must Twitter, do it with the one you love.

In response to the recent scandal surrounding congressman Anthony Weiner’s (I can’t help but laughing when I here his name) twittering most have expressed outrage over the feeling that the public has been betrayed by his inappropriate behavior, and maybe to some extent we have. I do not defend or approve of the congressman’s texting, sexting, or whatever you want to call it because he conducted it outside of his marriage without his wife’s consent. And as time goes on I have a feeling that there was more to his antics than just wanting a friend to text with.

Let’s take a look at the life of a married public official whose spouse works for another politician. They both live very public busy lives and most likely spend a lot of time away from each other. Loneliness and large periods of time without intimacy with the one you love could allow you to stray onto the internet, chat rooms, Facebook, and twitter to find some form of intimacy where you can maintain your anonymity and still satisfy normal sexual desires.  You don’t have to be a politician to be in the same situation and be away from your lover.

Do you think that it would have been big news if the headlines read “Congressman text’s picture of himself in his underwear to his wife”? First of all the only way anyone would have found out is if either one of them showed or told someone or if you were careless and didn’t secure your correspondence. No one should care what two married consenting adults together, It’s nobody’s business.

II have no doubt that the congressman loves his wife. They are newlyweds and she is pretty hot. They both travel a lot for their jobs so I’m sure they spend a lot of time apart. Do you think that they do not have desires and urges for intimacy? I’m willing to bet that he is not the only guy that has a similar situation but is afraid to broach a very taboo subject outside of the bedroom.

If you love your significant other don’t look outside of your relationship to satisfy the desires that need to be reserved for her. If you are that lonely and aroused what is wrong with doing the very thing that you feel is ok to do with a complete stranger with your wife? Why not send her a hot text or racy picture? You might just be surprised what the response will be. If you love her you should not be afraid to give it a try. You should be able to get just as hot and aroused and able to self gratify with the one you love than a twitter buddy. Be creative with the age of technology we are in you don’t have to use too much imagination to come up with ways to be intimate when your significant other is miles away. The key words here are “significant other” You don’t need to cruise the web for a cyber skank when you have a hottie you love.

I can’t guarantee that if will work for everyone. But you have a better chance of staying out of trouble and the headlines if you love the one you are with.

Thursday, June 9th, 2011 Relationships 3 Comments