Don’t be afraid to ask.

Please don’t be afraid to ask a question that might make a difference in your relationship. You will have complete confidentially. So if you have a question, even an embarrassing one You will be glad you did.


Friday, August 18th, 2017 Ask Fireman Ed No Comments

Toys are not Just for Boys…Girls like Toys Too

There has been an age old fear that a man bringing toys for their lover into the bedroom is taboo. That urban legend is a thing of the past. If you are in a relationship at any age (of course being of legal age) 21-100 introducing some adult toys into your bedroom for the one your with can do nothing but enhance your bedroom activities and maybe take your lover to places that she has never been. I have 30 years of testing in this subject and have compiled volumes of experiences that I am willing to share with the world to help others break down this barrier and start using things that the both of you can enjoy. I will explain in detail, what and where to buy, how to introduce it to your lover, 30 years of techniques of how to use toys not only stand alone but with other natural of love making experiences.
If you think this is a subject of interest respond back and I will roll out some of the best kept secrets to help you “Rescue your Relationship”.

Friday, January 22nd, 2016 Gift Ideas 12 Comments

Share our site with your friends

Be sure to share our blog with your friends and associates. We will be continually adding new helpful information and be available as always to answer any of your questions.

Friday, January 22nd, 2016 Relationships 3 Comments

Be a Hero, not a Zero

Anniversaries. Whether it’s your wedding, celebrating the first time you met, or any other significant date you share with someone that you love. First of all it’s extremely important to remember them, second of all it’s important to the one you love that you do something special to let them know that you care. Anniversaries with romantic significance deserve much more attention and preparation to be truly successful. Every so often you might be able to get away with the last-minute candy and flowers. But if you want to be a hero and avoid being is zero I have a plan for you that will require some preparation but will certainly make your next anniversary one she will never forget.
The keys to success in any good recipe or plan is always in the preparation. This plan will take some preparation and forethought on your part. It’s a fairly common practice to take your significant other out to dinner on your anniversary. It usually starts and ends at your favorite restaurant and then you go home and either do nothing or you make a little whoopee. Well if you plan to make a little whoopee why not make allot and take it off the charts!
Start out by planning your event in a restaurant with a very high-end swanky hotel attached. There are plenty of them out there and you might have to get off your wallet a little bit but will be well worth it in the long run. You need to make your reservations in the finest restaurant that they have and number two a reservation for one of their rooms. It doesn’t have to be the presidential suite but a nice room with a king size bed and more importantly a really nice bathroom makes a nice touch. If you have kids it will require some sort of child care either a late-night babysitter or maybe the grandparents spending the night.
During the day visit Victoria Secrets or your other favorite lingerie shop and pick up something smoking hot that you think your significant other would look good in. And if you want to be a little bold and kick it up a notch maybe purchased a little toy. If this is your first adventure with such I recommend something small and nonthreatening like the Pocket Rocket. Stop at the hotel you chose at check-in time order up some champagne and strawberries and place the lingerie you bought in the motel room on the bed arranged nicely. Go home pick up your love one and let the games begin.
After dinner when she thinks you are going to take her home and roll her in her own sheets lead her to the elevator. I’m sure she’s going to question what are you doing. You can either conceal the secret for the short elevator ride or you let her in on it right there. When you get up to the room with the lights dimly lit and she sees the lingerie, champagne and strawberries, she will know what you are there for and I think you can figure out the rest from here. (If you can’t you need to send me a private e-mail for some information that I’m not really ready to publish on this blog yet.)
All of the ingredients and most importantly the element of surprise will make this an anniversary neither of you will forget. If you try it let me know how it worked out.

Tuesday, December 24th, 2013 Anniversaries 30 Comments

A message to Fireman Ed followers

I’m sure some of you are wondering why it’s been a while since I posted on my Blog. Actually this was an idea I have had for a long time. I wanted to proceed with it and finally got the nerve to put up a blog and start writing. In the interim I got busy with some other ventures that I was involved in and I wasn’t sure if the site would reach anybody or even be helpful. I have received many positive feedbacks that lead me to believe they you feel that the information I’m offering is useful. That being said I want to continue to share with you some of the information that I’ve compiled as well as my own personal trials and tribulations to help others rescue their relationships. I look forward to the opportunity to share with you on a frequent basis my thoughts, ideas, and experiences. Please feel free to e-mail me, make comments on the blog, and offer any and all feedback that you think would be helpful to others.

I thank you in advance for your consideration.

Your friend Fireman Ed

Tuesday, December 24th, 2013 Relationships 1 Comment

If you must Twitter, do it with the one you love.

In response to the recent scandal surrounding congressman Anthony Weiner’s (I can’t help but laughing when I here his name) twittering most have expressed outrage over the feeling that the public has been betrayed by his inappropriate behavior, and maybe to some extent we have. I do not defend or approve of the congressman’s texting, sexting, or whatever you want to call it because he conducted it outside of his marriage without his wife’s consent. And as time goes on I have a feeling that there was more to his antics than just wanting a friend to text with.

Let’s take a look at the life of a married public official whose spouse works for another politician. They both live very public busy lives and most likely spend a lot of time away from each other. Loneliness and large periods of time without intimacy with the one you love could allow you to stray onto the internet, chat rooms, Facebook, and twitter to find some form of intimacy where you can maintain your anonymity and still satisfy normal sexual desires.  You don’t have to be a politician to be in the same situation and be away from your lover.

Do you think that it would have been big news if the headlines read “Congressman text’s picture of himself in his underwear to his wife”? First of all the only way anyone would have found out is if either one of them showed or told someone or if you were careless and didn’t secure your correspondence. No one should care what two married consenting adults together, It’s nobody’s business.

II have no doubt that the congressman loves his wife. They are newlyweds and she is pretty hot. They both travel a lot for their jobs so I’m sure they spend a lot of time apart. Do you think that they do not have desires and urges for intimacy? I’m willing to bet that he is not the only guy that has a similar situation but is afraid to broach a very taboo subject outside of the bedroom.

If you love your significant other don’t look outside of your relationship to satisfy the desires that need to be reserved for her. If you are that lonely and aroused what is wrong with doing the very thing that you feel is ok to do with a complete stranger with your wife? Why not send her a hot text or racy picture? You might just be surprised what the response will be. If you love her you should not be afraid to give it a try. You should be able to get just as hot and aroused and able to self gratify with the one you love than a twitter buddy. Be creative with the age of technology we are in you don’t have to use too much imagination to come up with ways to be intimate when your significant other is miles away. The key words here are “significant other” You don’t need to cruise the web for a cyber skank when you have a hottie you love.

I can’t guarantee that if will work for everyone. But you have a better chance of staying out of trouble and the headlines if you love the one you are with.

Thursday, June 9th, 2011 Relationships 3 Comments

Beach Blanket Bingo

What guy doesn’t like to see his girl in a smoking hot bathing suit? Bathing suits
are most likely one of the most overlooked gift ideas that a man would buy his

Some of the reasons this gets overlooked is getting the courage to go into a retail
store and purchasing one in person, the fear of being embarrassed when you
present it, and not knowing how to get the proper size just to name a few.

Most women have some level of self consciousness and do not think they would
look good in some of the suits that we would like to see them in. Selfish as it
sounds we dig girls in bikinis so why not put the one you love in something that
they may never buy for themselves. Big or small we love them all and it is your
job to make her feel good about herself.

If you don’t know her size do a little detective work look in her drawers and check
one she is already has and poach the sizes from that. If you can’t find one or if
she doesn’t have any go into her underwear drawer and use her bra and panty
sizes. (Don’t get caught checking to see if she uses fabric softener) If you don’t feel comfortable going into a
retail store to purchase a suit there are many reliable mail order companies that
you can purchase from either through a catalog or the Internet.

Don’t worry whether or not she will like it, she will and it will give you a lot of
points with her. The thought itself says that you think she is hot enough to wear it
and don’t be afraid to tell her how hot she is in it.

Here are a couple of tips to keep in mind. Take it slow out of the box don’t make
the first suit you buy a micro bikini from Wicked Weasel. And if you decide to go
all out on the first one don’t have her open it in front of the kids and her mother.
Have her open it alone so she doesn’t have to react in front of anyone. And if it
ends up being a little too risque for her to wear to the beach or the family pool
use you imagination. When you guys are home alone have her model it for you
and have your own little fantasy beach party at the house. If you have a pool and
tall hedges even better. Nothing wrong with a little adult outside activities. You be
the lifeguard and make her beach bunny you have always wanted to catch. Have
some fun with it you might just surprise the both of you.

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Wednesday, May 4th, 2011 Gift Ideas 7 Comments